Is He the One?
Well, the answer is simpler than you think....
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The answer is, you'll know.
Trust me, you'll just know by Allah's help! Your heart will speak what it feels in his presence.
You'll be able to tell by his manners, the way he talks to you, the tone he embodies in his voice talking to you and your family.
He'll want you to have a strong relationship with your Creator never a distraction for you. He'll encourage you to practice Deen the best you can.
The gentleness in his manners, the purity matching in his words and actions, the kind of ambitions he envisions, the patience he displays and the kindness he exemplifies.
What good is a man if he doesn't have good character and deen within him? How can he fulfil your rights as a wife if he can barely fulfil the rights of the One who created Him?
How does he treat his mother, sisters, and elders? The way a man treats the women in his life speaks volumes about his character!
You'll be able to tell by the way he treats you, the way he respects, how he values every thought of yours.
You'll know when his presence doesn't make your heart race but instils in you a kind of peace your soul has never felt before.
What good is a man with whom your heart doesn't find sakina (peace) with?
You won't need to sacrifice your relationship with your Rabb. He'll help you become a better woman.
How can he be good for you if he distracts you from your deen?
He'll acknowledge those weaknesses of yours and help you turn them into your strengths; reminding you to embrace yourself lovingly and be comfortable in your own skin.
What good is a man who makes you feel like you've to sacrifice your core values for him?
Your looks or beauty won't matter to him as much as your character will; for a man who fears Allah never seeks to make you sacrifice your hijab for him.
A real man judges you by your character, the heart you possess, the way you behave not just by how you look! What good is a beautiful face if the woman is proud, rude or dishonest?
He'll respect your boundaries and maintain your privacy valuing it as his own dignity.
He'll support you in your dreams, inspire you to reach your hearts aspirations, help you grow into the person you wish to become.
You'll begin to realise his sincerity in loving you is not temporary or conditional but for the sake of Allah alone.
How can he love you if he has no love in His heart for the One who created you?
He will cherish you not just for who you are, but for who you can become in the eyes of your Rabb.
And most importantly, if he's the real man, one who has sincerity in his heart for you, he'll want to bring his parents and speak to your guardian.
He won't hesitate from taking all the right steps to faithfully be yours.
A real man takes responsibility for his actions and words. He doesn't manipulate but instead, he communicates with honesty and patience.
You'll find no delay or excuses in his speech, his intentions will be clear about you.
For the right one will never shy away from taking you as his responsibility and making you his, in the Halal way.
He will do whatever it takes to be yours and not displease His Lord.
If a man doesn't fight for you then you're not the goal of his life. As simple as that.
A real man is a man of his word and if he can't keep his word then he's wasting your time.
Instill this within yourself that men think logically. They always think about the pros and cons before doing anything.
Don't be blinded by fleeting emotions. If you are his goal, you are what he wants.
He'll fight through every obstacle to get to you in the most respectful manner.
Honestly, you'll just know he is right one for you when his presence in your life feels like a dua answered, and when his character reflects the qualities that of a righteous husband you always wanted.
You will know he is the one when he walks through the door and your heart finally rests in peace, knowing that he is indeed, a blessing sent to you by Allah.
No matter what your heart feels, always ask Allah to guide you for He knows what your heart doesn't. So if you know someone and your heart keeps wondering, 'Is he the right one for me'? ; pray Istikhara. Make Duaa and seek clarity from the One who made you and him, for He knows what's hidden in the unseen that you can't perceive yourself.
If he's the one, Allah will make the path to reach him easy and grant you peace in your heart. If not, know that Allah will send someone truly meant for you at the most perfect time.
Place your full trust in Allah for He will never lead you to the wrong person nor take you away from the the right one.✨
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا "Our Lord! Bless us with ˹pious˺ spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous." (Surah Al-Furqan, Verse 74)
Aameen.
